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The holidays are coming. Which means food. Traditions. Travel. Gifts. Family. Children who are somehow both overstimulated and bored. And approximately 700 tiny decisions that somebody has to make.
The holidays can be wonderful. They can also put an impressive amount of pressure on a relationship.
Whose family are we seeing? How long are we staying? How much are we spending? Are we exchanging gifts with your siblings? Why did you tell your mother we'd be there at noon without asking me? Who remembered the teacher gifts? And how did I somehow become the person responsible for remembering every single thing?
In this short 1.5 hour workshop, I’m synthesizing everything I’ve heard most often in the last 10+ years of working with couples, and giving you tools that guide your mind and conversations to have the best holidays possible.
Get It Together Before We Get Together is a three-hour virtual mini-retreat designed to help couples get on the same page before the holiday chaos begins.
Because underneath a lot of holiday stress aren't actually problems with our family get togethers.
There are expectations nobody said out loud. Mental loads that don't feel particularly shared. Family dynamics we've been carrying for decades. Different ideas about money, traditions, gifts and what makes the holidays “special.” And two people who can very quickly forget they're supposed to be on the same team.
So before everybody gets together, we're going to get you two together.
“But We've Always Done It This Way…”
Traditions, expectations and figuring out what your family actually wants the holidays to look like.
🏠 “Okay, But Your Family…”
In-laws, extended-family dynamics, competing invitations, boundaries and staying a team when everybody has an opinion.
“I Thought You Knew…”
Unspoken expectations, disappointment, resentment and asking for what you actually need.
❤️ “Oh Yeah. Us.”
Protecting your connection when the holiday season becomes one giant to-do list.
You'll have the opportunity for a couple guided conversations throughout the retreat, but the important stuff stays between you and your partner. No cameras on.
No expectation that you will emerge with matching Christmas pajamas and a color-coded holiday binder. (though… maybe I’ll be wearing a turkey outfit? probably not)
Instead, you'll Get it Together: you’ll have a guide to talk about a lot of the tough topics, opening questions and ways to respond, and importantly: a plan that you can both refer to when things get tricky!
All at Less than HALF the cost of a single hour therapy session.
Live Online | 1.5 Hours | $75 per couple
The holidays are coming. Which means food. Traditions. Travel. Gifts. Family. Children who are somehow both overstimulated and bored. And approximately 700 tiny decisions that somebody has to make.
The holidays can be wonderful. They can also put an impressive amount of pressure on a relationship.
Whose family are we seeing? How long are we staying? How much are we spending? Are we exchanging gifts with your siblings? Why did you tell your mother we'd be there at noon without asking me? Who remembered the teacher gifts? And how did I somehow become the person responsible for remembering every single thing?
In this short 1.5 hour workshop, I’m synthesizing everything I’ve heard most often in the last 10+ years of working with couples, and giving you tools that guide your mind and conversations to have the best holidays possible.
Get It Together Before We Get Together is a three-hour virtual mini-retreat designed to help couples get on the same page before the holiday chaos begins.
Because underneath a lot of holiday stress aren't actually problems with our family get togethers.
There are expectations nobody said out loud. Mental loads that don't feel particularly shared. Family dynamics we've been carrying for decades. Different ideas about money, traditions, gifts and what makes the holidays “special.” And two people who can very quickly forget they're supposed to be on the same team.
So before everybody gets together, we're going to get you two together.
“But We've Always Done It This Way…”
Traditions, expectations and figuring out what your family actually wants the holidays to look like.
🏠 “Okay, But Your Family…”
In-laws, extended-family dynamics, competing invitations, boundaries and staying a team when everybody has an opinion.
“I Thought You Knew…”
Unspoken expectations, disappointment, resentment and asking for what you actually need.
❤️ “Oh Yeah. Us.”
Protecting your connection when the holiday season becomes one giant to-do list.
You'll have the opportunity for a couple guided conversations throughout the retreat, but the important stuff stays between you and your partner. No cameras on.
No expectation that you will emerge with matching Christmas pajamas and a color-coded holiday binder. (though… maybe I’ll be wearing a turkey outfit? probably not)
Instead, you'll Get it Together: you’ll have a guide to talk about a lot of the tough topics, opening questions and ways to respond, and importantly: a plan that you can both refer to when things get tricky!
All at Less than HALF the cost of a single hour therapy session.
Live Online | 1.5 Hours | $75 per couple